Okayyy?
I’ll have to disagree with you there, because I don’t see Normal people in the U.S talking about what skin color you are and how oppressed/oppressive you are. The only ones that base their lives around race are racists and weirdos, like the far left and right. The reason why it looks like everyone is some kooky crazy is since the silent majority doesn’t care, speak, or is afraid of speaking.
I for one can care less about your skin color, since it literally doesn’t effect anything you say or do. Your actions and words speak louder than whatever physical characteristic you may have to me, because my brain is at least partially not mush.
Besides, stuff like the abolition of slavery, the civil rights movement, etc, had to be about race since the core problems and actual racist society made it about race.