Sounds to me like you don’t understand the difference between an attention whore and an asshole.
Or the difference between an asshole who has a point and an asshole who doesn’t.
Saying shit like “Look at me I’m such a great troll” doesn’t make you look like an asshole, it just makes you look like someone who craves attention.
Similarly, there’s a difference between a post that’s derogatory but has a point and a post that’s just “you’re a piece of shit” with nothing added to it.
Ultimately I agree that we should all try to stay as civil as possible, but if you want to keep throwing shit you need to learn how these nuances work.